The human soul doesn’t want to be advised or fixed or saved.
It simply wants to be witnessed — to be seen, heard and accepted exactly as it is.
When we make that kind of deep bow to the soul of a suffering person, our respect reinforces the soul’s healing resources, the only resources that can help the sufferer make it through.
My counselling approach balances careful listening and mindful inquiry with bold truth-telling and practical action. I’m a good listener, and I’m also hands-on and engaged, giving clear direction and feedback when it is welcome. The clients who get the most benefit from working with me tend to be people who consider themselves to be reasonably successful and effective in their lives, are willing to confront themselves as well as their partner, and genuinely want my honest feedback.
Therapy is definitely a process....not a destination to be reached.
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