If you don't have self-love, it will be difficult for others to love you. It's as simple as that. You will not be receptive to the love. You will not believe the compliments. You will not believe that others do appreciate you. You will always question whether it is true. You will often wonder about the simple gestures of affection. You might refuse love. You might be unaccepting of affection. This in turn will sabbotage your relationship. It can become a self-fulfilling proph